namei returns locked parent dir inode for create / unlink

namei returns locked parent dir inode for create / unlink
don't hold fd table lock across idecref() (latter does block i/o)
idecref calls iput() in case last ref -> freeing inode
dir size is 512 * # blocks, so readi/writei &c work
unlink deletes dirent even if ip->nlink > 0